21 Subtle Signs Your Coworkers Hate You - TheJobNetwork

21 Subtle Signs Your Coworkers Hate You - TheJobNetworkAre you secretly (or not so secretly) afraid that your coworkers hate you? Plenty of people will make this painfully clear, but there are people who give off much subtler signs. Rather than dwelling on the angst, why not ask yourself whether your coworkers are showing, through their behavior and their comments, their dislike for you? googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) Here are 21 subtle signs you might need a rolleality makeover at work (or a new batch of coworkers).1. Your gut says soIt could just be in your head, but it could also be true. If you have a particularly grumpy or nasty coworker, but you notice they arent being grumpy or nasty to anyone else, that might be a sign to trust your instinct. If you have a strong feeling, listen to it2. They take leistungspunkt for your workIf someone goes out of their way to steal the credit for your ideas, and they dont do that with anyone els e? Problem.3. They wont maintain eye contactWhen you dislike someone, its painful to look at them, right? Youre constantly afraid your look will convey the underlying hostility. If you notice a colleague avoiding your eyes, this is a possible reason why.4. They never smile near youLet alone at you. When youre around, you feel like you have personally rained on their parade. Theyre usually very chipper, just never with you.5. Theyre snippyAgain, people can have bad moods and days and be generally snippy, but if you notice this happens mostly to you and almost all the time? Red flag.6. They exclude youYour colleague makes a ton of jokes and banter about the office, but you never seem to be able to wiggle your way into it. If youre not part of the inner circle or the team, there might be a reason.7. They avoid youYour coworker practically dives into the elevator when he sees you coming, or ducks around the corner, or takes a break as soon as you arrivewell, the writing is on the wall.8 . They spread rumorsYouve heard a few rumors about yourself and they all trace back to one personyeah,theres a very good chance that person just doesnt like you.9. They play bossThis person is not your boss. You might even be on the same level. But they constantly try to wield unauthorized power over you. That suggests, at very least, that they find themselves superior to you in some important way.10. They dont acknowledge youYou walk into the room and say good morning and everyone else says good morning backexcept him.11. You never get the inviteYour coworker is constantly inviting people out to happy hours or coffees or lunches, but you never make the list.12. You pick up on bad body languageIf you catch little eye rolls here and there, or other prickly body language like arms crossed over the chest, you can sometimes read the truth in how your coworker feels about you through these cues.13. Theyre defensiveYour coworker get super defensive in your presence. This can indicate a la ck of trust, intimidation, or deeper dislike. Add it to the list.14. They dont talk to youYou sit five feet from this person, but they never communicate with you except by email. Thats a good sign theyre trying to limit your in-person contact.15. Youre met with a chorus of noYour coworker(s) is always disagreeing with you. Shooting down your every ideasometimes even before you can get the whole thing out. Ask yourself, does he/she do that with anybody else?16. Theyre cliqueyIf your office has started to feel like high school and your coworker like a mean girl that bullies you, then thats a good sign something is off in your dynamic.17. They never ask about youYour colleagues are always talking about their hobbies, families, weekend plans. Just not around you.18. Youre always on the back burnerYour concerns and needs and projects continually take a back seat. The most important things to your job performance are never prioritized by your team. Bad sign.19. You get thrown under the bu sIf youre getting tattled upon, turned in, blamed for things thats never good. Theres a good chance your disgruntled coworker is trying to get you fired.20. They encourage you to leaveIf a coworker keeps insinuating that there might be a perfect position for you somewhere else, and that youd be so much happier or more successful there, thats a great sign theyre trying to get rid of you.21. Theres no trustIf you can tell youre on a need-to-know basis when you shouldnt be, or that your motives are being questioned, then this is a big sign that theres a rift.Once you figure out the verdict, youll have a chance to alter your behavior and right the situation. Its always best to have your colleagues on your side. Be sensitive to their needs and wants and youll be much happier at work yourself.